… This is a self fulfilling prophecy.

She’s met men who were hard to get with.

They weren’t interested in her, or they didn’t hit her radar level, and it never even occured to her to consider them as potential partners, or they were already married or in committed, faithful monogamous relationships.

She’s telling on herself, and doesn’t realize it.

If she’s only met men who were easily to get with… that’s all she’s looking for, all she can see.

And this applies in reverse as well, or in any other gender … direction.

This is just myopia, idpol… we’re really still doing this?