First thing: this is mildly infuriating. Not frustrating!

And i mean i am annoying. And i dont even need him and me to be sick to be annoying

I dont really keep him from going on his PC and drinking softdrinks, but i ask him often about how hes feeling and if its still bad i then “poke” the topics of resting or tea or something else that might ease the symptoms

About the Icepack: he likes them but is too lazy to get them himself…

Sorry if that seems to defensive/attacking to you as your message seemed very hyperbolic/pessimistic
What i posted is really not that strongly meant as you might have interpreted it