Totally, dating sucks for all genders, no question about that. The issues are just different and pretty much mirrored.

A friend showed me who was writing her and most of it was weird and creepy. If you’re a man, it’s hard to find someone who wants to write with you period.

Yeah, that’s exactly it.

Unfortunately I think we are at the point where these conversation are bound to get eroded by inflammatory rhetoric.

That’s also not wrong.

Tbh, I think the most important thing (not only in regards to dating but in regards to society at large) is to counter the individualization trend. It just makes people very lonely in general. It separates young men from resources needed to develop into more socially acceptable people, it separates people from their support groups in general and it just makes things really hard for everyone who’s not perfectly well adjusted for the individualist life style.