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BananaTrifleViolin@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Personally I’d be pissed off to be honest. It’s none of his business and this is crossing boundaries.
Being set up with random women you’ve never met and he himself likely barely knows is very unlikely to be successful. He’s also aggressive and rude about it. Why is he so angry you’re single?
This isn’t about the random date, this is about the way your dad treats you. You’re 22, not a child, it’s none of his business. How you react to this determines how he behaves in the future - if you don’t want him doing this again you need to tell him where to go.
reactionality@lemmy.sdf.org 1 week ago
Absolutely agreed. I’d probably be on no speaking terms with my dad if he pulled that. It shows a complete lack of interest in the son, as he thinks it’s an opportunity issue as opposed to possibly anything else going on. He just wants to dump a shitty solution and call it a day because he “did his parenting job” so that he can absolve himself of anything to do with his son’s lack of a dating life.
If anything I’d bet OP’s upbringing by such toxic and careless parents is what’s causing him to not have found someone yet.
So fuck the dad.