None of your business, frankly. Those are our genitals and we’re human beings not medical curiosities.

Asking us to defend publicly that our genitals are “good enough” by deep diving into the details of how a very complex and advanced surgery is done is utterly dehumanizing behavior. Anyway, I’ve literally never had a man say he felt there was something off with my genitalia and that’s including men who I never disclosed to & later asked me about pregnancy risks (implying they still believed I was cis).

Don’t ask again. Be kind and respect people’s privacy when the topic is about their genitalia. Thanks.