Great answer!

As a 40 something this pretty much matches my thoughts.

I would add that my hormones have settled down in the last 20 years as well. Like when you’re 20 there’s this “imperative” to pursue sexual encounters. Now it’s still there but it’s just more sensible.

I’ll also add that I think around 30 is the most appealing age. I probably thought that when I was 18 too.