Comment on Are old people usually attracted to other old people?
SomethingBlack@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I’m definitely not old (~30), and my preference has generally been my age +/- 5 years.
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed that my sexual attraction has migrated from being solely based on physical attributes to being partially based emotional connection, intelligence, passion, etc.
I think it’s also important to note that an individual’s “peak attractiveness” can occur at different stages of their life.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
You’re developing romantic attraction. It’s different from sexual attraction, but usually people think of them as one and the same.
SomethingBlack@lemmy.world 1 week ago
I disagree that it can only be romantic attraction.
For example, I can find a random person attractive if they’re displaying a skill they’re proficient in, talking passionately about a subject they’re knowledgeable in, or freely enjoying themselves. And all without feeling any kind of romantic inclination towards them.
It’s primarily sexual despite the fact it’s not necessarily physical