I mean to me, if I’m trying to get with you, or while I’m with you, all I care about is if you like me or not.

I think a lot of guys think that it would honestly be perfectly ok for you to go on having gay sex in your straight relationship. They aren’t threatened by another woman because that woman isn’t fulfilling the role they fulfill: sex with a penis. They also probably think you’d be missing out not to have both in your life if you are bi.

Or they are just erasing. But sometimes the same behavior can come from completely different ideas.