Comment on Is it weird to hate a language because it bring up bad memories/feelings?
python@programming.dev 2 months ago
Totally valid, I have the same thing but with Russian! There’s also an aspect of just being not very good at the language, so when speaking it at home I basically never had a chance to sufficiently vocalize my thoughts or defend myself in arguments - just because I was never taught enough words for that.
I basically refuse to speak it unless directly talking to my own or my partners parents. Though the hope is to break contact with my parents soon 🤞
IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
OMG I felt this. I could never find the right words to describe my depression, so my mom just keep going with the “Just Be Happy” or “You’re Lazy That’s Why You’re Depressed”
Like wtf, its fucking brain chemicals. But even google translate doesn’t find those right words that make a good argument, like things like metaphors, idioms, or any figure of speech cannot be translated, so yea… (fuck my life) 😓