Comment on Is it weird to hate a language because it bring up bad memories/feelings?
Dagwood222@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
If it were me, I’d find a Cantonese speaking actor with a really nice voice and have them record some positive affirmations specific to me.
Things like “You are better than your family,” or “You deserve to feel better.”
You can probably find something similar already recorded on a site like Audible
Just the opinion of a rando on the interwebs.
IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
Lol
I watched some Cantonese TV shows, conservative culture seems to be so common.
Like the binary gender roles of men and women. How men should be “tough”. As a guy, who isn’t really that “tough”, I kinda hate it. Filial piety is also a common thing, and parents are always portrayed as caring… which just feels like those TV shows are made to invalide the fact that shitty parents exist.